GOSSIP HINDERS BREAKTHROUGHS
By Rev. Michael Benson Ajayi
“Do not spread slanderous gossip among your people. “Do not stand idly by when your neighbor’s life is threatened. I am the Lord . “Do not nurse hatred in your heart for any of your relatives. Confront people directly so you will not be held guilty for their sin." Leviticus 19:16-17 NLTBible
The English dictionary defines 'gossip' or 'gossiping' as :a casual or unconstrained conversation or reports about other people, typically involving details which are not confirmed as true.
It defines 'slander' as : the action or crime of making a false spoken statement damaging to a person's reputation.
Nations have gone to war against each other on account of gossips or slander . It is for this reason that God frowns at it.
It is an abomination against God to raise a false report against a child of God. The scriptures says “You must not pass along false rumors. You must not cooperate with evil people by lying on the witness stand. "Exodus 23:1 NLTBible and " Believers, do not speak against or slander one another. He who speaks [self-righteously] against a brother or judges his brother [hypocritically], speaks against the Law and judges the Law. If you judge the Law, you are not a doer of the Law but a judge of it. James 4:11 AMPBible
Side talks against a believer frustrates the anointing of God's favour upon God's people . It is best to discuss with a person than in their absence, phone conference calls can be put across to verify issues to avoid misunderstanding or twisting of facts " Argue your case with your neighbor himself [before you go to court]; And do not reveal another’s secret,"Proverbs 25:9 AMPBible . Gossiping results in a fall in grace resulting in painful failures at the edge of breakthroughs The Corinthian church suffered from divisions , emotional crisis and spiritual stagnation on account of slander and gossips ( 1 Cor 3:3, 2Cor.12:20 ).
Gossiping and slandering opens the doors to demonic attacks , it is a confirmation of ignorance of God's word and the lack of true faith , wisdom and love in a person. " He who hides hatred has lying lips, And he who spreads slander is a fool." Proverbs 10:18 AMP Bible. ( See 1Tim 5:11-13 ) Gossiping and slanders result in lack of respect exposing a person to public humiliation ,the Bible describes such a person's disposition as ' vain ' (James 1:26 )
Gossiping and slandering prevents a person from finding love in a marriage or relationship resulting in marital infidelity. Do not fraternize with gossips for the sake of your marriage ( Psalm 41:7, 38:12) Gossiping is of the devil , the scriptures says "Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. 1 Timothy 3:11 Kjv bible. The word 'slanderous ' is the Greek word diabolos which means : he who opposes God -Satan. Satan comes to steal , kill and destroy. Gossiping and slandering removes our spiritual protective shield thus giving room for demonic attacks .
God punishes gossips ,tale bearers and slanderers. Titus 1:10,11 says their " ...mouths must be stopped ' indicating poverty . We eat and speak with our mouths . Poverty prevents this from happening . Gossiping separates a gossip from people of great wealth and influence ( Prov. 25:23 )
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