YOU CAN HAVE A JOYFUL HOME REGARDLESS OF THE ECONOMY




By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
1 Tim 6:6-7 TLB “Do you want to be truly rich? You already are if you are happy and good.”
         Most crises in our homes are money related and if not nipped in the bud, may result in very painful losses. This is what happens when money becomes our source of happiness (Rev.3:17-18) we have been trained to believe that the scripture in Eccl 10:19 which says “money answereth all things” (KJV) means 'money solves all problems.' The word ‘answereth’ is a Hebrew word ‘anah’ which means: to pay attention; respond; begin to speak; to sing, shout, testify. What that scripture is saying is; money is an amplifier and preferred above all things by men .However, money can’t buy true love, raise the dead from the grave, prevent marital infidelity ,bring about world peace and make a sinner righteous.
                The object of all human endeavours is the achievement of happiness and peace and they are both spiritual virtues. Constantly, thinking about sad events leads to sadness, likewise, happiness is the product of thinking on happy events. The choice to be happy is ours (Phil4:8). Four decades ago ,most nations had GDP's that were 100 times lesser than the present  , families spent lesser amount of money than they presently do and the divorce rate was lesser than 6% and it was much more easier to get married. The present turn of events is the aftermath of the doctrine that says money guarantees happiness consequently; more time and effort are spent on acquiring money than in building wholesome relationships. Consequently, more children are being grown in the absence of true parental presence and care thus, further weakening the family bond and destroys communality.
The scriptures say in Eccl 5:10-11 NLT “Those who love money will never have enough. How meaningless to think that wealth brings true happiness! The more you have, the more people come to help you spend it. So what good is wealth—except perhaps to watch it slip through your fingers?” Money is only a means to an end not an end itself .It facilitates the intents of the heart, that’s why we need to seek God’s righteousness before seeking for money (Matt6:33).
               The word of God teaches that happiness can be attained without money.  Many communities live peacefully coexisting with little or no money. Jesus said in Matt 5:6 AMP “Blessed and fortunate and happy and spiritually prosperous (in that state in which the born-again child of God enjoys His favor and salvation) are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness (uprightness and right standing with God), for they shall be completely satisfied!”
         Families with a tradition of sharing the gospel , prayers; singing of hymns, spiritual songs, are bound to experience great peace regardless of the state of their economy. During such interactions they receive  wisdom and strength to weather all storms (Phil4:11-13), yes joy is possible without money (Isaiah55:1-2). The queen of Sheba confirmed this during her encounter with King Solomon, her verdict was recorded in 2 Chron 9:7-8 NIV “..How happy your men must be! How happy your officials, who continually stand before you and hear your wisdom!”  A large appetite for God’s word guarantees constant joy, this can be attained through fasting (Zech8:19.) The queen of Sheba consolidated her position as a regular recipient of the word of wisdom from the servant of God through the gifts she gave him (2 Chronicles9:9, Galatians 6;6) .Partner with a teaching ministry, this ensures a constant flow of words of wisdom and joy in the family.
Prayer : Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive overflowing peace in my  family in Jesus name.
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