THE FEAR OF CRITICISM FRUSTRATES PROGRESS

By Rev.Michael Benson Ajayi 
Rom 15:14-16”. ..   So, my dear friends don't take my rather bold and blunt language as criticism. It's not criticism. I'm simply underlining how very much I need your help in carrying out this highly focused assignment God gave me,…”. Msg Bible 
       Criticism is the act of expressing disapproval and of noting the problems or faults of a person or thing (Merriam –Webstar Dictionary)
        We loath disapproval by nature even the most religious amongst us. Prophet Job was a successful entrepreneur, preacher, husband and father;he suffered major losses because he could not stand being criticized Job 16:4 NLT “I could say the same things if you were in my place. I could spout off criticism and shake my head at you.” He preferred flattery even if he was heading in the wrong direction Job 16:5NLT “But if it were me, I would encourage you. I would try to take away your grief.” The pain associated with criticism is a pointer to life’s valuable lessons and part of our development process.For example, no reasonable parent would enroll his or her child into a school were teachers are afraid to criticize students .Critical examinations are an integral part of the learning process.
         For fear of being criticized Peter promoted a wrong theology and was humiliated by a subordinate.  Gal 2:12-13 NLT says “He was afraid of criticism from these people who insisted on the necessity of circumcision.  As a result, other Jewish Christians followed Peter's hypocrisy.. .” Peter was the senior pastor of the church of Christ and yet he could not stand firm on controversial issues such as racial and gender equality in the house of God .This is one of the reasons behind the proliferation of satanic cults in some churches.We cannot be at our best if we fear constructive criticism.  
        Destructive criticism is not of God; it seeks to discourage us from serving God, the scriptures speaks concerning this in 1 Tim 5:6-7NLT “ But the widow who lives only for pleasure is spiritually dead even while she lives.  Give these instructions to the church so that no one will be open to criticism.” Destructive criticism hinders miracles in our lives and should be avoided. Another area that brings about negative criticism is in the management of public funds.God's servants are expected to earn a living through business or jobs especially where offerings are insufficient to pay ministry bills (2Thess3:6-10). They are also supported by the generosity of those benefiting from their ministry (Gal.6:6,Phil4:16) this symbiotic relationship is crucial for a sustainable relationship between ministers of the gospel and their beneficiaries. However, in cases where money is set aside for a particular purpose, preachers are not to use such funds on themselves; this exposes the church of Christ to negative criticism. 2 Cor 8:20-22 (Mssg Bible)..” taking every precaution against scandal. We don't want anyone suspecting us of taking one penny of this money for ourselves.  We're being as careful in our reputation with the public as in our reputation with God.”
         The rejection of criticism leads to failure in relationships,marriages,destruction of families, poverty and homelessness (Pro 13:18). Most of what is ascribed as spiritual attacks is nothing but the effect of rejecting healthy criticism. The ability to receive criticism is a sign of spiritual maturity and progress. Prov 28:23 Mssg bible says,” In the end, serious reprimand is appreciated far more than boot-licking flattery.”As you receive Jesus Christ as Lord and saviour and read this now, receive grace for promotion as you read this now in Jesus name.
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