HOW TO SECURE A RELATIONSHIP AGAINST FAILURE

  By  Rev. Michael Benson Ajayi
 Isaiah 60:3-4 NKJV “The Gentiles shall come to your light, And kings to the brightness of your rising. "Lift up your eyes all around, and see: They all gather together, they come to you;”
             Jesus said we are the light of the world and salt of the earth Matt5:13-14. Light exposes the beauty and salt the essence of creation .The second verse of Isaiah 60 says “darkness shall cover the earth, And deep darkness the people;” this darkness is the confusion and chaos in the world that’s as a result of the lack of unconditional  love .What the world practices is a type of love that is conditional; this is deficient in so many ways and results in a lack of commitment in relationships.
            It is the lack of commitment that is behind the increased rate of insecurity globally. It requires God’s kind of faith to overcome the fear of failure which is the bane of our inability to totally commit to a relationship. We have been taught that love is all that is needed to sustain a relationship but that's far from the truth, people who break- up sometimes still have love for each other; we need faith in God and in each other. This faith is born out of an understanding of the word of God. The home built on love alone cannot stand the test of time because the human experience of love is temporal and gives no room for discipline (Heb 12:6-11) ;  this is the reason why more lives are lost every year because of love than any other cause in the world and as a result we are often suspicious over those who truly love us.
        The scriptures say in Prov 24:3-4 NKJV “Through wisdom a house is built, And by understanding it is established; By knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches.” There are three major ingredients needed to sustain a home, they are namely, wisdom, understanding and knowledge. They are obtained through God’s word. Compasion is the reward of a life of wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Unfortunately most persons have put the pursuit of love above these indispensable ingredients and become easy prey to emotional predators. Practicing love without these three qualities is an invitation to anarchy .   
               The unconditional love of God is shared through the heart of God’s people and it gives illumination to this dark world. This type of love is logical and works with the human conscience; it is very patient and kind, never jealous or envious, never boastful or proud, never haughty or selfish or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable or touchy. It does not hold grudges and will hardly even notice when others do it wrong. It is never glad about injustice, but rejoices whenever truth wins out. In summary, it says “If you love someone, you will be loyal to him or her no matter what the cost. You will always believe in him or her, always expects the best of him or her, and always stand your ground in defending him or her”(TLB  1 Cor 13:4-7) . These are the qualities the scriptures in Isaiah60:3-4 says attracts the world to the Church. This is what the world yearns for, but unfortunately what is displayed in our churches is religious marketing strategies used by the world’s system. This is behind the poverty in the world and that is why religious folks tend to be very selfish in relationships. Let the world see the light of love through you that your heavenly Father may be glorified (Matt5:16)..  
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