SEX IS DEEPER THAN PLEASURE :IT'S LIFE CHANGING

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
1 Kings 11:4 NIV  ”As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father had been.”
       Satan recognizes the power of sexual intercourse and uses it to his advantage ,this is evident from the fact that one cannot go a minute without being bombarded with images of a sexual kind from the world's media. 
      The power of sex in decision making cannot be over emphasized. Eve was the most beautiful and seductive woman of her time,even animals were mesmerized by her beauty:  she persuaded Adam to turn against God in willful surrender to Satan through her sexuality (1Tim 2:14)the use of sexual starvation as a bargaining tool is common among women with great sexuality and influence with negative consequences (1cor.7:5).
    Likewise, King Solomon , despite his wisdom ,became a victim of sexual manipulation (1kings11:1-40) turning his back against God. The fall of these great men lead to great losses and a relegation to a life of untold self -induced hardship.
       Sexual-transmutation is a term used to explain the science behind sex. The word "transmute” means "the changing or transferring of one element, or form of energy, into another." Napoleon Hill said ‘The emotion of sex brings into being a state of mind. The emotion of sex has three constructive potentialities, they are (1) The perpetuation of mankind (2) The maintenance of health, (as a therapeutic agency and (3)The transformation of mediocrity into genius through transmutation.
Sexual transmutation is the switching of the mind from thoughts of physical expression, to thoughts of some other nature (good or evil).
       Sexual desire is the most powerful of human desires. Scientific research has disclosed that  men of greatest achievements (good or evil) are men with highly developed sex natures; men who have learned the art of sex transmutation .Also men who have accumulated great fortunes (legally or illegally) and achieved outstanding recognition in literature, art, industry, architecture, and the professions, were motivated by the influence of a woman. The scripture in Matt 19:3-5 says "..shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?" The act of sexual intercourse between a man and a woman produces this one flesh relationship (1Cor.6:15-16). 
          There’s no such thing as casual sex. Sex with a spiritually impotent person automatically leads to degeneration in one’s devotion to prayer , fellowship, evangelism, and other acts of devotion to God resulting in selfishness and depression.  Whether or not the man and woman ever cleave to each other in marriage; the physical act still binds them together as one flesh. Marriage is beyond  becoming one flesh, in John 4:17-18. Jesus explained that living with and having sex with a person does not automatically make them your husband or wife as the case may be. Marriage involves more than sexual relations. Marriage is a covenant that binds two persons together and when done under God’s guidance, leads to sustainable progress and a glorious destiny. 
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