DO NOT BE CONSUMED BY REGRETS

DO NOT BE CONSUMED BY REGRETS
By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
Proverbs 24:16 "For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again: but the wicked shall fall into mischief."
        One of the realities of the Christian life is that righteous  men do fall short too. The scriptures says in Romans 3:23 "For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;  " One can never  be too careful enough . The best plan for success is prone to failure that's why the cooperate world has force majeur  (the act of God) as an element to be considered in contractual agreements. It is because of the possibilities of failures that insurance companies exist.
           Disappointments are part of life and shouldn't be viewed from the point of being under a curse, especially when one is convinced that you've put in your best into a project, be it in a marriage, relationships ,ministry or business, because some disappointments are as a result of some other person's bad decisions and not ours.
             For example, it wasn't God's fault that Adam and Eve whom He gave the right to choose decided to eat of the forbidden tree neither could He be blamed for the self-destruction mode characteristic of the first generation of humans on earth. In both cases the scriptures shows that God wasn't happy with both situations as shown in Gen.6:7 "And the Lord said, I will  destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth; both  man, and beast, and the creeping thing, and the fowls of the air; for it  repenteth me that I have made them." The word repenteth does not mean regret as thought by many because that'll be contrary to God’s nature of being all -wise and all- knowing,  it is the Hebrew word "nacham" which means to sigh, i.e. breathe strongly; to be sorry,to pity, console or comfort oneself . It means God pitied man due to his weaknesses caused by Adam's disobedience in the garden of Eden. If that wasn't the case then Gen.6:8  wouldn't have said  Noah found grace in the sight of God despite being in the midst of the unrighteous who were a majority.  That means humanity has the ability to choose what is right .  It was God's pity for Man that Noah saw. The word grace means God's pity for man, like a woman has for a one year old child wallowing in his vomit.  Sin is like vomit (2Pet.2 :22) and we are prone to err as humans (Ecclesiastes 7:20) that's why we daily need God's grace to live in righteousness  .
        Whenever we err, we shouldn't allow ourselves be consumed with regrets for that would lead to a deviation from our life purpose rather we should in repentance be grateful to God for the lessons learned.  Elijah was consumed by depression and regrets and despite God’s rebuke  and became suicidal (1kings19:4-10) .This led to an abrupt end of Elijah's ministry.(1kings 19:11-18). Elisha took over his place and became a success at the assigments he complained so much about.
 God does not give us jobs we cannot handle.    One of the greatest resource material  for wisdom is the book of Proverbs and it's partly a compilation of king Solomon's errors and the lessons he learnt from them and thousands of years later we are beneficiaries of a man who refused to be stopped by regrets.He failed so many times in relationships and with his walk with God but was able to run the raise of faith till the end.
           We should never regret living in righteousness, those who do so are ignorant of the deadly consequences of sin. Asaph said in Psalm 73:13-14 " Verily I have cleansed my heart  in vain, and  washed my hands in innocency. For all the day long have I been  plagued, and chastened every morning." He became frustrated when he saw the apparent prosperity of the ungodly: this was due to his ignorance of the devastating consequences of living in unrighteousness in the long run. However, a change in his perspective resulted in his recovery (Psalm 73:15-28)
    We are admonished to overcome regrets ((Proverbs 15:13) knowing that whatever experience we go through as long as we hold on to God's loving hands through His word would eventually leads to our promotion . The scriptures says in Romans 8: 28 "And we know that all things  work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the  called according to his purpose. "
As you read this now receive grace to turn your errors in to everlasting testimonials of victory in Jesus name.
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