SEX IS A GIFT FROM GOD
By Rev. Michael Benson Ajayi
Proverbs 27:7" The full soul loatheth an honeycomb; but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.".
The scriptures describes the sexual experience as being sweet as an honeycomb (SS4:11)It is best when pursued as an adventure .The absence of adventure in the sexual relations between married folks opens the door to infidelity. Marital adventure should be all encompassing ,it is spiritual, emotional and physical. At the inception of a relationship ,married persons are usually more adventurous in their sexual relationship but progressively their hearts become overwhelmed with the demands of life thus destroying the fire of adventure and as a result sex becomes a monotonous assignment. We are admonished to be free of anxiety and to develop healthy prayer lives (Phil.4:6)
The enemy recognizes the need for adventure and offers it to married couples in the form of inappropriate sexual fantasies. The scriptures says in Proverbs 5:3" For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:" The 'stranger' is that person willing to participate in an illicit sexual affair with a married person.God condemns this in its entirety. The scriptures says in Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge."
The lack of adventure in sex by married couples destroys intimacy in a relationship and leads to frustrations. Many resort to using sex toys and pornography as alternatives but this only leads to an amplification of the sense of loneliness and lack of intimacy. Masturbation destroys intimacy in marriages . Sexual hunger is designed to humble married couples to the point of not being ashamed to ask for forgiveness in the case of an offense in other to keep enjoying the benefits of sex . Sexual hunger is the strongest binding agent between the married (Gen.30:15-16). It is so strong that persons with healthy lifestyles soon start to look alike . Masturbation destroys this and promotes depression, poverty, drug abuse, arrogance and presumptuousness which is the bane of many a failed marriage. Those addicted to masturbation are often insensitive to the emotional needs of their spouse and any form of self-sexual stimulation that involves imagining one having sex with someone beside one's marriage partner is visible to God , the scriptures says in Matthew 5:28" But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." Sex is a thing of the heart as much as with the body. Adultery isn't only when physical sexual acts takes place.
The cure for infidelity,depression , sicknesses,poverty, lack of zeal to serve God and many other emotionally- based diseases common among married folks is sufficient sex . The scriptures says in Proverbs 27:7 "The full soul loatheth an honeycomb; but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet." a sexually satisfied soul is irritated at the sexual advances of strangers but a sexually deprived soul will settle for a bitter relationship with an outsider as long as the sexual need is being met.
Sex is a duty like any other that must be fulfilled between married persons. It is more important than lunch,breakfast and dinner. (1Cor.7:3)Better to be a failure in the kitchen than in sex. Married persons are joint owners of their bodies (1Cor7:4) and a sex toy can never be compared to a human being . The disadvantages of using sex toys are more than the advantages (if there are any) .
For the purpose of fasting and prayer married persons may refrain from having sex (1Cor.7:5) however, nobody should starve their partners sexually all in the name of devotion to ministry, that opens the door to sexual immorality and gives Satan the advantage over that ministry (1Cor.7:5) ministers of the gospel should carry their spouses along to ensure that this very important aspect of their marriage is fulfilled. It is better to have a happy family than a large ministry .Ministry is to heal marriages not destroy them. Mal2:16 says God hates divorce in his church. We are admonished to find sexual satisfaction in our spouse (Prov. 5:18-20) sex is sex just as water is water regardless of the container in which it's found.
As you read this receive grace for sexual discipline and a peaceful home in Jesus name.
Prayer / counseling + 2348098536911 + 2348035536911 Email : Michaelbensonajayi@gmail.com
Proverbs 27:7" The full soul loatheth an honeycomb; but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.".
The scriptures describes the sexual experience as being sweet as an honeycomb (SS4:11)It is best when pursued as an adventure .The absence of adventure in the sexual relations between married folks opens the door to infidelity. Marital adventure should be all encompassing ,it is spiritual, emotional and physical. At the inception of a relationship ,married persons are usually more adventurous in their sexual relationship but progressively their hearts become overwhelmed with the demands of life thus destroying the fire of adventure and as a result sex becomes a monotonous assignment. We are admonished to be free of anxiety and to develop healthy prayer lives (Phil.4:6)
The enemy recognizes the need for adventure and offers it to married couples in the form of inappropriate sexual fantasies. The scriptures says in Proverbs 5:3" For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:" The 'stranger' is that person willing to participate in an illicit sexual affair with a married person.God condemns this in its entirety. The scriptures says in Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge."
The lack of adventure in sex by married couples destroys intimacy in a relationship and leads to frustrations. Many resort to using sex toys and pornography as alternatives but this only leads to an amplification of the sense of loneliness and lack of intimacy. Masturbation destroys intimacy in marriages . Sexual hunger is designed to humble married couples to the point of not being ashamed to ask for forgiveness in the case of an offense in other to keep enjoying the benefits of sex . Sexual hunger is the strongest binding agent between the married (Gen.30:15-16). It is so strong that persons with healthy lifestyles soon start to look alike . Masturbation destroys this and promotes depression, poverty, drug abuse, arrogance and presumptuousness which is the bane of many a failed marriage. Those addicted to masturbation are often insensitive to the emotional needs of their spouse and any form of self-sexual stimulation that involves imagining one having sex with someone beside one's marriage partner is visible to God , the scriptures says in Matthew 5:28" But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." Sex is a thing of the heart as much as with the body. Adultery isn't only when physical sexual acts takes place.
The cure for infidelity,depression , sicknesses,poverty, lack of zeal to serve God and many other emotionally- based diseases common among married folks is sufficient sex . The scriptures says in Proverbs 27:7 "The full soul loatheth an honeycomb; but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet." a sexually satisfied soul is irritated at the sexual advances of strangers but a sexually deprived soul will settle for a bitter relationship with an outsider as long as the sexual need is being met.
Sex is a duty like any other that must be fulfilled between married persons. It is more important than lunch,breakfast and dinner. (1Cor.7:3)Better to be a failure in the kitchen than in sex. Married persons are joint owners of their bodies (1Cor7:4) and a sex toy can never be compared to a human being . The disadvantages of using sex toys are more than the advantages (if there are any) .
For the purpose of fasting and prayer married persons may refrain from having sex (1Cor.7:5) however, nobody should starve their partners sexually all in the name of devotion to ministry, that opens the door to sexual immorality and gives Satan the advantage over that ministry (1Cor.7:5) ministers of the gospel should carry their spouses along to ensure that this very important aspect of their marriage is fulfilled. It is better to have a happy family than a large ministry .Ministry is to heal marriages not destroy them. Mal2:16 says God hates divorce in his church. We are admonished to find sexual satisfaction in our spouse (Prov. 5:18-20) sex is sex just as water is water regardless of the container in which it's found.
As you read this receive grace for sexual discipline and a peaceful home in Jesus name.
Prayer / counseling + 2348098536911 + 2348035536911 Email : Michaelbensonajayi@gmail.com
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