LOVE IS THE PROOF OF TRUE DISCIPLESHIP

 Rev. Michael Benson Ajayi
John 13: 34-35 "A new commandment I give unto  you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.  By this shall all  men know that ye are  my disciples, if ye have love one to another."
        The sign of a true disciple isn't in our religious garments,  tone of speech,  strict dietary principles and all manner of rules and regulations prescribed by religion. The world seem to be getting more confused on what constitutes a wholesome church . After making a commitment to serve the Lord, the next step  is to identify with a Christian group : this is necessary for healthy spiritual growth.
            Through our fellowship with other Christians we experience a warmth that makes the period of trials and temptation  bearable.  It is the love from the brethren that gives us the assurance needed to face whatever challenge we are faced with.
         Preachers are more effective in their work when in partnership with persons who really care about their welfare . Apostle Paul had open doors for God's service but he realized that having the right companionship was imperative for a successful mission and since he had none, he declined the offer. The scriptures says in 1cor 2: 12-13" Furthermore, when I came to Troas to  preach Christ’s gospel, and  a door was opened unto me of the Lord,  I had no rest in my spirit, because I found not Titus my brother: but taking my  leave of them, I went from thence into Macedonia." Titus was a symbol of true discipleship. A true disciple is a source of comfort to many,  2 Corinthians 7: 6 says, "Nevertheless God, that comforteth those that are cast down, comforted us by the coming of Titus;"
          Unfortunately, Christians have contributed to more discomfort in a troubling world : from fraudulent activities to environmental pollution.   The world is looking for true love more than any other item. It was what attracted the multitude to Jesus .Modern church growth formula only results in increase in membership and less disciples of Christ. That's why there is so much competitiveness and schism among denominations to the point that inter-marriage between people of various races,  tribes and denomination within the body of Christ  is forbidden by many churches . This is what happens when preachers place more emphasis building of their little infinitesimal empires above raising disciples for God’s kingdom. A true church should be known for nothing else but love for one another( John 13:34).
           People are easily drawn to wherever there is love. Therefore , if God’s people must reach a world in chaos, love must be at the forefront of all our events. In John 13:34 Jesus taught  that love is the identifiable feature of a disciple and not religion . The commandments of Christ are summarized in  John 15:17 "These things I command you, that ye love one another. " the entire gospel is a compendium on principles on how to love one another.  We are commanded  to teach the world what true love is (Matthew 28:20 ). The church is the unifying factor of any community or nation. When love is at work, the problems of  nepotism,  tribalism  and marginalization are eradicated from the social fabric of the community . It is therefore, disheartening, when these anti-social behaviors are promoted by many a religious leader. We are admonished to love one another in the selfless manner with which Christ loved us Ephesians 5:2 this is possible when the world's system does not become our standard for relating with one another.
       Love is a force that emanates from God and it leads us to have empathy for one another.  Therefore, whenever we run out of love for one another,  we should ask God to fill our hearts with love for the particular person or group seeking for our care . It is human to err and the best of us is prone to offense and whenever that happens,  it becomes  difficult to be loved and cared for ,that's why we need to constantly ask for fresh love for our spouses, children,  church members,  etc.
     It is God who gives the power to love .  A married person who keeps complaining about not being loved by their spouse should rather pray that their partner be given a teacher of the gospel who will show them through the scriptures how to rejuvenate one's passion for his or her spouse through prayers and declaration of the gospel , and if we keep up with it without quitting, we would soon  see the results in our marriages and relationships.  Galatians 6:9 AMP "And let us not lose heart and grow weary and faint in acting nobly and doing right, for in due time and at the appointed season we shall reap, if we do not loosen and relax our courage and faint.". We do not stop loving overnight therefore we should not expect them to start loving immediately, we should  give them time to recover.  It is easier when we are preoccupied with honest work or business and missionary activities . There are also social rehabilitation centers in need of the services of loving Christians.
        The human heart was designed to love someone or something, therefore, choosing  to love is the first step to being free from the feeling of loneliness.  We shouldn't worry about where the power of love will come from,  it is already in the Spirit of God that dwells in our hearts.  It is easier when one is filled with the Holy Spirit, that's why married folks must be filled with the Holy Ghost with the evidence of speaking in other tongues. The scriptures says in Romans 5:5 AMP "Such hope never disappoints or deludes or shames us, for God's love has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit Who has been given to us."We should always pray for the increase of the fruits of love towards each other in our hearts( 1Thess 3:12 ) and that our love be directed towards each other  ( 2Thess 3:5)
              Many christian ministries take pride in the development of other virtues such as prayer, fasting, holiness and not much is spoken on love which is the most important virtue in the church of christ (1Cor13:2b,13) . We are most likely to see more church  advertisements on warfare,killing of witchcs, money doubling techniques and less on love. The effect of not teaching on love is not far -fetched in our communities. By the prevalence of these teachings  , virtually every member of our family is a suspect for witchcraft or one sinister activity or the other and  our villages have become a no go area as parishioners have been made to believe that villages have turned into witchcraft covens.  This isn't what Jesus said we should teach,  wherever love is taught,  hearts become tender and less prone to be used by Satan.  The message of love taught over a long period of time is the cure to the spate of wickedness in our societies.  The society is a reflection of the messages from our pulpits ( Galatians 3: 1.)
       God wants us to be rooted and grounded in love ( Ephesians 3:17) the greatest teacher of God’s word is no match for a Christian overflowing with the love of God (Ephesians 3:19) , the realm of love is the highest dimension attainable in the realm of the spirit ( Col 3:14). The fullness of God’s power is easily made manifest when we walk in unfeigned love (Ephesians 3:17-19) and we receive victory over death (1John 3:14) what that means is that through love , dead dreams and projects are brought back to life.
As you read this now,  receive grace to walk in the supernatural unconditional love of God with faith to do the extraordinary in Jesus name.
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