MARITAL HARMONY IN TURBULENT TIMES

"He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him. For if a man cannot manage his own household, how can he take care of God’s church?" 1 Timothy 3:4‭-‬5 NLTBible 

    The Bible defines marriage as the union between a man and a woman and it is a gift from God designed for sexual pleasure ,mutual assistance , companionship and to create a healthy and safe environment where children will be raised into becoming servants of God. The family is a microcosm of the church and Jesus Christ. 

    Jesus Christ gave rules concerning the family . " In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself."Ephesians 5:28 NLT and " And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." Ephesians 5:21‭-‬22‭, ‬33 NLTBible 

   Married persons are expected to depend on the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength to carry on with the duties of marriage . “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.' John 15:5 NLTBible . A fruitful marriage is that where members of the family are full of the fruits of the holy spirit namely temperance, meekness, goodness, love,joy, long suffering , peace, gentleness ,faith (Galatians5:22)

  Many persons define marital along the line of having children, cars, houses ,money etc. This is the reason behind many unhappy homes. You can have all these and more in a marriage and yet be leaving in misery , confused and afraid of the unknown . 

 No two marriages are the same therefore a man ought to know how to run his family (1 Timothy 3:4‭-‬5 ) and treat his wife as equal constitutionally and spiritually but unique and different in administrative functions. Bible says we are heirs TOGETHER of the grace of life , (1Pet3:7) therefore, both deserve to be respected .  

  Spouses should ask the Lord to intensify their love for each other to the point of it being addictive  . " Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins."  1 Peter 4:8 NLTBible 

    Avoid arguments as much as possible , there is no winner in an argument between married persons. Arguments destroys the loving, friendly atmosphere in a marriage and leads to strife . Seek love because " Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends.
"  Proverbs 17:9 NLTBible and "Starting a quarrel is like opening a floodgate, so stop before a dispute breaks out." Proverbs 17:14 NLTBible
    Arguments destroys the sexual desires of a man for his wife and vice versa , better to
be quiet and maintain your dignity " It’s better to live alone in the desert than with a quarrelsome, complaining wife."Proverbs 21:19 NLTBible  many persons have driven their spouses in to alms of a wiser and stable lover  " A quarrelsome wife is as annoying as constant dripping on a rainy day. Stopping her complaints is like trying to stop the wind or trying to hold something with greased hands."Proverbs 27:15‭-‬16 NLT
 Arguments destroys the home. " A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.
" Proverbs 14:1‭ 
Prayer : Heavenly father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Ghost and power to build strong families in Jesus name. 
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